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Age Appropriateness: The appropriateness of a parent and child sharing a bed can depend on the child's age. As children grow older, they may need more independence and personal space.
Co-sleeping is not a sin. But failing to let go is a parenting mistake.
A population-based birth cohort study followed children from birth to 6 years of age to look for correlations between bed-sharing trajectories and psychiatric disorders Adolescence and Adulthood
Boundaries and Privacy: As children enter adolescence, the need for privacy and personal space becomes more pronounced. Sharing a bed at this stage can potentially hinder the child's development of independence and may lead to discomfort or conflict.
- Intent: Is it for survival/comfort, or to control the child's independence?
- The Mother’s Partner: If a new boyfriend enters the bed, that is a serious red flag for child safety. A healthy mom will prioritize her son’s safety over a partner’s convenience.
- The Son’s Consent: By age 8 or 9, does the son express a desire for his own space? If the mother refuses this request, it becomes a problem.
The effects of bed-sharing vary significantly as a child grows: